He claims our relationship was a mistake. I’m terrified I will have to share my child with this cruel man and long for the person I married
Last summer, my husband left me and our baby daughter, who was then six months old. It transpired that he had had an emotional affair with a colleague. He spent months telling me what special feelings he had for her. He is now filing for divorce, saying our relationship was a mistake and he feels no remorse for what he has done because “you’re so angry, I never have space to feel remorse”. I still love him and long for the man I married. How do I cope with such a drastic change in him? I’m terrified I will have to share my child with this frightening, cruel man.
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